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Tuesday, October 2, 2007

[vinnomot] Ekattur'er Golpo ,2007.

 
                                         
Ekattatur'er Golpo, 2007
 
Dear Community,
Ekattur'er Golpo is an initiative that seeks to promote awareness about Bangladesh's history and rich cultural heritage among today's youth. It is a non-political, not-for-profit endeavor that creates avenues for cultural exchange.
Ekattatur'er Golpo is brought to you by a group of young Bangladeshis and Bangladeshi-Americans from the DC Metro area. We invite you to join us as we prepare for our next event scheduled for December 1, 2007, Saturday from 5-8 PM at the Johnson Theater - George Mason University. The event will include cultural show, photo exhibit and personal stories about the liberation war.
Each year, the proceeds from Ekattur'er Golpo events are used to support Bangladeshi initiatives that empower people and make a difference. Previous beneficiaries include an orphanage in Dhaka, Bangla School -Washington DC and Prothom Alo Acid Victim's Fund. This year's proceeds will be donated to the Liberation War Museum and a project that ensures food security for 300 families in Bangladesh. Please visit http://www.globalgiving.com/pr/1200/proj1167a.html for more info.
 For more information on Ekattur'er Golpo or to become a sponsor please visit www.71ergolpo.com .We hope that you will join us at the event and help make this year's show a success!
Regards
Ekattur'er Golpo Team.
 
 



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[vinnomot] Re: Poetry in Prothom Alo editorial

Dear Belal Bhai,

 

Thank you for sending the mail. But, I don't understand why these are called poetry, and why these have to be published in Prothom Alo, one of the leading news papers of the country. At this moment, when the postmodern poets are flourishing with their finest verses, I could not imagine why this daily repeatedly has to do so much to turn us back more than a hundred years by publishing this work in the name of poetry. Justice Habibur Rahman did a lot in his own field even in writing, but, writing poetry in such a style shows nothing but his novice act. And Prothom Alo from the beginning publishing this, I believe, to get some kind of favor from him. It shows another poor quality of the present literary judgment. I am sorry that I have to disagree with you.

 

Sincerely,

 

Hassanal Abdullah, editor

Shabdaguchha

 
 
In a message dated 10/2/2007 5:31:12 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, begbelal@hotmail.com writes:
The attached garland of words is for Justice Habibur Rahman's wonderfully minted satirical poems published in the editorial page of Prothom Alo's edition of october, 2, 07
  http://www.prothom-alo.com/archive/news_details_mcat.php?dt=2007-10-02&issue_id=389&cat_id=3&nid=NjIxOTk=&mid=Mw==
 
 




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Re: [vinnomot] Islam and politics in Bangladesh

Dear Bhai Shadhin,
Thank you very much for your comments about my writing. Bhai Shadhin, let me to tell you, I was not nor I am against you, at least until now. My rule is, I do not pick my fight with someone who is not worthy to fight.
 
Thanks.
Shamim Chowdhury
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Shadhin Ahmed <ashek1@yahoo.com> wrote:
Well said Shamim Bhai. Its not I am always against
you. I liked it as to what you wrote in here. Nicely
done.

--- Shamim Chowdhury wrote:

>
>
> Dear Alochok Ezajur ,
> Greetings. before I go into your current
> discussion let me ask you a question in refer to
> your posting on August 31st of 2007 (#8329 of 8436)
> with Alochona forum.
>
> Brother, I do not remember I ever posed as a
> neutral person, so what you discovered from my
> posting is not clear to me till today! Since I
> started writing in the net, I openly said I am a
> member of Bangladesh Awami League. You can search
> the net with my name and you will find in plentiful
> posting where I claimed my self as Awami worker, and
> I am proud of that.
>
> I am not sure whether you will agree or not but I
> found it is interesting that predominance of Awami
> supporter are not covert but overt. On the other
> hand majority of Jamaat, BNP and present army back
> government are ashamed of their identity therefore
> do not want to disclose their political
> distinctiveness! May I hope you will come forward
> and let the netters know your political affiliation
> or you may choose to act same as those characters I
> mentioned above?
>
> Anyway, let me come to your recent posting and
> present my two cents. I do agree with a hefty area
> of your thoughts. Yes indeed, it is shameless
> unquestionable defeat of morality of mainstream
> politics that triggered the rise of politics of
> religion based on falls perception not only in
> Bangladesh but in almost all countries of the world
> especially in Muslim majority country.
>
> However, that dose not proves by any means that
> the standing of religion-based politics is right. It
> remains as one of the most inhuman unworthy system
> to try that failed miserably many moons ago. With
> all its shortcoming democracy remains most
> compassionate and trustworthy political system yet
> until we find something new and obviously better.
>
> Politics based on theology and theocratic state is
> nothing new but a very old phenomenon, perhaps the
> oldest among all other school of politics. World has
> witnessed the rise and fall of theological political
> estate from east to west and north to south of our
> dear globe. Especially theocratic states based on
> Christianity and Islam become chunk of our medieval
> history.
>
> Whether it is Christian or Islamic state, all of
> theology based statehood collapsed not by outsiders
> but insiders. Who saw it as blockade for human
> development and against the very essence of why God
> created his kingdom with different skin colors,
> difference of opinion, creed, linguistic barrier,
> physical differences and so many other significant
> dissimilarity to test how we coincide and coexist
> with each other and still do justice?
>
> Theological state remains viable as long there was
> good leaders who evidently created state based on
> theology but ruled with justice of universality. But
> as time passed by morality of those leaders
> collapsed and it not only left a chilling effect on
> the society but also bankrupt the very base of
> religion it self. The very mathematics of ruling
> statehood changed. Theology for mankind replaced by
> rule of aristocracy of royals in the name of
> thology. Thus, the end of the morally of bankrupt
> theological state collapsed and usher the rise of
> state with collective leadership now what we call
> democracy.
>
> If you look at the history of our Islamic
> statehood that started in the hand of the most
> noblemen, Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) in Medina
> collapsed completely not long after his departure.
> However, there are many arguments whether we should
> call the statehood of Medina or it was a mere
> community hood in agreement.
>
> In absence of Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) Islamic
> state or community in agreement failed as able
> leaders of caliphate died or killed by insiders.
> After the disappearance of Caliphate a Rashidun.
>
> Hazrat Abū Bakr (RA) nominated Hazrat Umar (RA)
> as his successor on his deathbed, and there was
> consensus in the Muslim community to his choice. His
> successor, Hazrat Uthman, was elected by a council
> of electors (Majlis), but was soon perceived by some
> to be ruling as a "king" rather than an elected
> leader. Hazrat Uthman was killed by members of a
> disaffected group. Hazrat Alī then took control,
> and although very popular, he was not universally
> accepted as caliph by the governors of Egypt, and
> later by some of his own guard. He had two major
> rebellions and was assassinated after a tumultuous
> rule of only five years. This period is known as the
> Fitna, or the first Islamic civil war.
>
> Muāwiyya, a relative of Uthman, and governor
> (Wali) of Syria became one of Hazrat Alī's (RA)
> challengers. After Hazrat Alī's (RA) death,
> Muāwiyya managed to overcome other claimants to the
> Caliphate. Under Muāwiyya, the caliphate became a
> hereditary office for the first time. He founded the
> Umayyad dynasty. We know the sad story of Karbala
> where Prophet Muhammad’s grandsons were killed in
> the hands of Umayyad who eventually formed the
> Umayyad dynasty.
>
> From the time of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) the
> Umayyad, Abbasid, and finally Ottoman (sultans of
> Turkey) dynasties held successive caliphates.
> Caliphate ended when Gazi Mustafa Kemal Atatürk, as
> part of his reforms, constitutionally abolished the
> institution of the Caliphate in 1924.
>
> Scattered attempts to revive the Caliphate
> elsewhere in the Muslim World were made in the years
> immediately following its abandonment by Turkey, but
> none were successful.
>
> Hussein bin Ali, a former Ottoman governor of the
> Hejaz who aided the British during World War I and
> revolted against Istanbul, declared himself Caliph
> two days after Turkey relinquished the title. But
> his claim was largely ignored, and he was soon
> ousted and driven out of Arabia by the Saudis, a
> rival clan that had no interest in the Caliphate.
> The last Ottoman Sultan Mehmed VI made a similar
> attempt to re-establish himself as Caliph in the
> Hejaz after leaving Turkey, but he was also
> unsuccessful. A summit was convened at Cairo in 1926
> to discuss the revival of the Caliphate, but most
> Muslim countries did not participate and no action
> was taken to implement the summit's resolutions.
>
> However, the King of Morocco adopted the title
> Ameer al-Mumineen and Mullah Mohammed Omar, former
> head of the now-defunct Taliban regime of
> Afghanistan, claimed neither any legal standing nor
> authority over Muslims outside the borders of their
> respective countries.
>
> Brother Ezajur, the only reason why I explained
> (Lot of these are not mine but from facts copied
> from history) is only to explain one and one reason.
>
> Degradation of morality not only happened in
> democratic politics today but also long before that
> we witnessed the similar or perhaps more cynical and
> dangerously sleeping down in politics based in
> religion.
>
> Now let me come to my point, with above said it is
> clear that there is no consensus among Muslim since
> the end of Caliphate of Rashidun to reestablish the
> statehood in its true essence. What we see in the
> name of Islamic statehood is nothing but mockery of
> Islam and rather rule of dynasty instead of rule of
> collectiveness. A mad man like Mullah Mohammad Omar
> of Afghanistan can claimed to establish some sort of
> Caliphate. On the other hand, there is country like
> Bangladesh who created a façade of Islamic
> Republic, which is based on nothing but so-called
> utopian Islamic state. It character is such that
> drunk womanizer a dishonest man like Gen. Ershad has
> to give the legitimacy by his military sermon to
> declare Bangladesh a Islamic Republic.
>
> Jamaat-E-Islami and most of Islamic political
> entity in Bangladesh (elsewhere too) wants to
> establish the state based on Islamic theology such
> as Caliphate is nothing but another travesty and a
> slap over our religion. Jamaat or no other Islamic
> leader in Bangladesh or else where has the moral
> authority to form such government.
>
> Just think who are the people who lead this
> so-called Islamic party in Bangladesh, Golam Azam,
> Matiur Rahman Nizami self-proclaimed war criminals,
> master minder of thousands of Bengali during our
> liberation war are in the forefront of
> Jamaat-E-Islami of Bangladesh. Mr. Ezaj, please
> think and then tell me what morality you see on
> these traders of religion, murderers and thugs
>
> It is sad that people with conscious mind are not
> uniting to start a movement not just to wipeout
> these religious traders for the sake of Bangladesh
> but for the sake of Islam as well. Just few days ago
> so called Islamic party in Bangladesh name Hizbut
> Tahrir which even does not believe in Bangladesh
> constitution (read their own statement from their
> website
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Re: [vinnomot] Freedom of Speech vis-a-vis Gradual Fundamentalization of our Mother

Dear Shadhin U Ahmed, I did not live in a prayer house my entire life, so surely I know how it whiffs. You can ask your elderly Moeen U Ahmed, see if he is willing to share his experience with you.
 
I got to admit, you have an inquisitive mind, nothing wrong but good. Someday you will know about the smell of a prostitute too if you really don't know about it yet.
 
Thanks.
Shamim Chowdhury
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Shadhin Ahmed <ashek1@yahoo.com> wrote:
Shamim Bhai,

I am just wondering how do you know a prostitute wear
low quality perfume?

I am just curious.

--- Shamim Chowdhury wrote:

> Dear Ms. Mahjabeen,
>
> For the sake of this story, let us consider
> Voldemart as religious traders such as Jamaati and
> Hogwarts as Bangladesh. What is missing? Oh surely
> it’s our great politicians (I am a mini me of
> them), lets name all of them as Death Eaters.
> Don’t forget about Carrow, Alecto the sister of
> Amycus Carrow and part of the group of Death Eaters
> that invaded Hogwarts in the Battle of the Tower,
> lets consider them as agent of foreign master(s).
>
> Oh my God, it is all coming to light! We must read
> the Harry Potter story again and again to know what
> really going to happen to our fate.
>
> Do you remember what Lord Voldemort said? "How
> many will be brave enough to return when they feel
> [the Dark Mark on their arms turn black]? And how
> many will be foolish enough to stay away?"
>
> Ms. Mahjabeen, I agree with lot of what you have
> to say but I remind my self, what if my father had
> done something wrong, do I carry it all along my
> life or at some point, I try to correct the wrong
> with a right. Surely, I will do that. I want to see
> the annihilation of Lord Voldemort the traders of
> religion and end to the rule of Death Eaters.
>
> Mujib was an ordinary man from a very ordinary
> family but then again his life become more then a
> life with all his flaws as a human bean. He did not
> realized his Hogwarts (Bangladesh) is contaminated
> with Death Eaters who wants to revive Lord Voldemort
> in all sense. But that really does not matter,
> history tell us damage was done on the dawn and none
> of us the residents of Hogwarts ever tried to
> correct it but did quite opposite and let Lord
> Voldemort take all over Hogwarts.
>
> These Death Eaters are everywhere then and now but
> please for the sake of Hogwarts do not think there
> is no man with sense prevailing. Magical Harry,
> Weasleys and Hagrids are still there with all their
> friends, and all the keys are still safe in Hagrids
> hand.
>
> Yes, lot of damage has been done and bunch of
> words has been loft in the air one against another
> and parasites are doubling and tripling. I am not
> sure where it going to stop.
>
> I will write about it again, its getting late
> almost 3:00 in the morning but before I go let me
> tell you few things
>
> I think this CG has a facade with a beautiful
> face-hiding scar everywhere with heavy makeup and
> low quality perfume just like a prostitute.
>
> I consider my self as a firm believer of secular
> politics and somewhat religious in my personal life
> and my father was so. It is not everyone who floated
> their self with the stream, there are so many people
> I know who did tried to swim against the turbulent
> water. I am a small man but tried my best to stop
> the unjust flow especially loitering with the
> fundamentalist. In protest, I resigned when I failed
> to stop.
>
> You may not agree but I firmly believe Awami
> League with its entire shortcoming is the last
> outpost to stop the spread of fundamentalist
> takeover of Bangladesh. This fortress been
> destroyed, cracked or shattered is the mere
> destruction of any hope left to turn back to what
> we dreamed, dream that we found through loss of
> millions. Anyone who wants the destructions of this
> fortress is enemy to me and I will fight to survive.
> I said destruction not criticism, any one who dose
> criticize to correct are welcomed and considered as
> friend not foe.
>
> Before I say sayonara to you Ms. Mahjabeen let me
> say my final word, to me Bangabandhu Sheikh Mujib is
> the composure of honest, loving, fatherly Dumbledore
> of Hogwarts. One man, one life he has done a lot.
> What he could not do, is not what he did not wanted
> to do but perhaps he failed. Even the most
> successful man of this planet earth has story to
> tell about his failures.
>
> Sincerely
> Shamim Chowdhury
>
> Note: I like your way of story telling, thanks for
> sharing your thoughts. You may condemn me but please
> do not condemn my ideological views.
>
>
>
> Freedom of Speech vis-a-vis Gradual
> Fundamentalization of our Mother
>
> Freedom of Speech vis-a-vis Gradual
> Fundamentalization of our Motherland
>
> The door bell rang for the fifth time. The
> electronic sound chimed the same music every time it
> came through the little white box located on the
> wall of our entry foyer. But somewhere in the tone I
> could sense the irritation of the person whose
> finger depressed the little button mounted on my
> exterior door. ?Where is everyone?? Through the
> glass door of my study, I saw my spouse viewing the
> TV with an intense attention. I could not see the
> children from my vantage point, but no doubt that
> they are also busy attending another TV set
> somewhere inside their room. Reluctantly, I got off
> of the chair leaving the computer screen glowing in
> the dark, came to the Foyer, and opened the door.
>
> It is Chotka, my youngest brother. Being the
> youngest among my parents four children, he grew up
> with this doting nickname that could not be shaken
> off from my vocabulary even though he is 34 now. My
> brother Chotka AKA Mohammad Zaved Alam works for a
> Multinational Management Consulting Company located
> in the Midwest. He is currently on a week long
> assignment at Richmond where he is negotiating a
> contract with Virginia State Government. But that is
> about 70 miles south of my Northern Virginia
> suburban home.
>
> ?What are you doing here?? I asked.
> ?Came to eat some ?Piaju? and ?Chola?, got some
> leftover from the Iftar??
> ?No?, I replied.
> ?Oh! I am so disappointed!? He said with a smiling
> face without a hint of disappointment in his face.
> He knows that the Iftari in our household is
> anything but all these deep fried starters. He knows
> how much we (me and my spouse) despise the
> aftereffect of the Piaju and Beguni both from health
> and social point of view (carrying the stink of
> fried Daal on your clothing to work next day and
> make the colleagues avoid you like plague) .
> ?Don?t be?, I assured Chotka, ?we have Chicken and
> Daal. Bet you haven?t had those for some time.?
> ?That would do for now? said Chotka ?but tell me
> what you guys are up to and where is everyone? I
> rang your door bells for half an hour (exaggerating
> of course), I thought you all went to the Tarabi
> prayers.?
> ?Well, your Dulabhai is saying his prayers in
> front of the TV, your niece and nephew is sharpening
> their video gaming skills and I am checking my
> e-mails.?
> ?Are you becoming a workaholic? Leave your work at
> work and give some time to the family.?
> ?What are you talking about?? I replied. ?This is
> not work. I am just checking my yahoo e-mails.?
> ?O! So what is new in ?cyber bangla? now-a-days??
> Even though Chotka is 14 years younger than me and
> spent almost his entire adult life in the USA, he is
> well aware of my stand on Bangladeshi politics and
> how passionately I feel about many issues
> surrounding our dear homeland. But, he does not keep
> tags on Bangladeshi affairs on a day to day basis.
> So, whenever I get a chance, I update him on the
> current socio-political issues. As I gave him a
> quick sermon on the latest controversy related to
> the Cat Cartoon.
>
> Chotka listened intently with a grim face and
> suddenly burst into a glee. I was surprised and
> slightly irritated. ?Look Chotka! This is not a
> laughing matter.? Chtoka almost choked trying to
> control his laughter. He said, ?Yes it is.?
> ?Why?? I was almost angry.
> ?Because I am thinking about Steve.?
> ?Who the hell is Steve??
> ?My boss Steve Schroeder.?
> ?What does your boss got to do with this??
> ?Your cartoonist only connected Mohammed?s name
> with a cat. I wish the Mullah?s heard what Steve
> said to me today. They would surely have lost all
> their appetite for Iftar.?
> ?OK! What is the story.?
> ?You know sis (Chotka used to call me Bubu in
> Bangladesh, I guess he is so Americanized now, he
> calls me ?sis? as an abbreviated American term for
> sister) I came here to negotiate a contract with
> Virginia State for my company.?
> ?Yeah!?
> ?We just got it today.?
> ?Congratulations!?
> ?Well, it was not easy. We had serious
> competition?.?
> ?Good for you.?
> ?OK, I called my boss Steve with the good news??
>
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[vinnomot] Humanism and Psychology: (Basic 2): Introduction to Human Learning

Understanding Ourselves and Our Universe: How Psychology Can Turn the "Mysteries of Human Nature" into Useful Tools for Self Improvement and Success in Life
 
Part 2: An introduction to human learning and conditioning
 
 
Learning (conditioning) is the most important natural determinant of human psychology for participants for two reasons:
1.  As was previously noted, the answer to the question "Why did I or someone else, think or feel or do that?" will the vast majority of the time be, "I or they learned to think ot feel or do that in this situation."
2.  When it comes to making changes in one's own or someone else's thoughts, feelings, or behaviors, the only ethical and feasible way we can do that is to change the learning contingencies. (We have to use learning, because changing our own or others' behaviors using trauma, as by harsh and offensive behavious, beating or frightening somebpdy with punishment here or in the so-called next world is not ethical, and for most of us who don't work in the most advanced scientific laboratories, changing our inherited factors via genetic engineering is not feasible.)
So not only is learning the most powerful natural determinant of how we live our everyday lives, it is also the most powerful tool for changing -- presumably for the better -- the psychological repertoires of ourselves or others, both in the short-term and long-term. (How's that for serendipity in nature?!)
Let's start, as usual, by defining our key terms and concepts. Learning is defined as a relatively permanent change in behavior (or cognition or affect) due to experience. We further clarify this statement by defining "relatively permanent" as long-term (from a minute to scores of years), but amenable to change (not totally permanent or chronic); and "experience" as antecedent and consequential stimuli from our external (outside one's body) or internal (inside one's body but outside one's CNS) environments. (Never forget that for all practical purposes, psychologically "you" are your CNS. Changing your CNS changes you, and changing you changes your CNS.)
Antecedents (As) are stimulus events that precede a behavior (or thought, or feeling) and make it more or less likely to occur. Consequences (Cs) are stimulus events that follow a behavior (or thought, or feeling) and determine its future occurrence in the same or similar situations. We will also now further define behavior (B) as any observable action of an organism (including actions that can only be observed using sophisticated technology such as microscopes or brain imaging techniques); cognition as any symbolic representation in the brain (such as a thought, idea, memory, intention, sensory image, etc.); and affect as the emotions (i.e., positive/pleasant or negative/unpleasant feelings; e.g., happiness, sadness, anger, or surprise) that are naturally and functionally related to cognitions and behaviors, and to antecedents and consequences.
NOTE: From here on, we will use behavior as the summary term for behaviors and thoughts and feelings, since all three work essentially the same way at the inter-cellular and intra-cellular levels in the brain. And just to be absolutely clear, we are saying that a thought or feeling is a neurochemical event in the brain (as it produced by a nerve+chemical change)), just as all behaviors are neurochemical events (+ muscle events) elsewhere in the body. All psychological phenomena are biochemical; nothing else!
We'll also be using two other important terms and concepts in this discussion that should be defined here. The conceptual, functional, and biological basis for the powerful effects of learning and conditioning (which -- remember -- we are using as synonyms) is that the situational stimuli that precede the behavior (A), the behavior(s) that follow(s) (B), and the consequential stimuli that result from that behavior (Cs), are all associated in the brain as a functional " situational stimuli (A),  ->behavior (B) -> consequential stimuli (C) unit", and that unit is retained that way in human memory (and that is called associative learning).
Thus, specifically what is learned is not only the specific As, Bs, and Cs, but more importantly the association that doing a particular B in response to a particular A usually produces a particular C! (See below for a more detailed discussion of the A -> B -> C Model of associative learning.) If you're at home and say something nice to your spouse, and she/he smiles in return, you not only have a memory of your home's stimulus characteristics, and your spouse's characteristics and smile, and your nice words, but the all-important fact that saying something nice (B) in your home environment (A) made your spouse smile (C), which you liked. So the next time you're just at home doing nothing, and you want a lift, your brain will recall that previous experience -- and all other similar ABCs in your past -- and produce whatever B you've learned to do in that situation to get a reinforcement (like saying something nice to your spouse). Life is learning and using such associations
The other term we need to define up front is behavior management. Associative learning occurs almost every minute of every hour of every day of all people's lives, whether we want it to, pay attention to it, or are aware of it at all. But when we intentionally use the natural principles of learning to systematically influence someone's learning (e.g., try to increase desirable behaviors or decrease undesirable behaviors in ourselves or others), that's called behavior management. Synonyms for behavior management are behavior modification (shorthanded BeMod), consequential management, selective conditioning, antecedent control, consequential control, and behavior therapy, among many others. We'll use BeMod as shorthand for behavior management in this course.
NOTE : Abuse of Psychology for political purposes, through BeMod doesn work, and that it means using cold-hearted or "aversive conditioning" techniques; even approaching the types of tortures associated with prisoners of war, or "brainwashing," or those depicted in such classic movies and books as One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest and A Clockwork Orange, or Manchuria Candidate. Since BeMod actually includes such techniques as kissing a loved one when they say or do something nice, grading student papers highly when they're correct and low when they're incorrect, and literally millions of other non-aversive or coercive techniques, that is a blatantly slanted and unethical practice of BeMod, and participants should not taje such information as false-info and disinformation (intentionally false info). What associative learning/conditioning and behavior management, ethically practices, are can be ascertained by using your rational, values-driven, intelligent brains to judge them. In the previous paragraph's example, if your spouse had been intentionally smiling more at you in an effort to get you to say more nice things, that would have been an example of him/her using BeMod on you, not an experiment but as a natural thing.
As noted, learning "is as simple as ABC." Whenever a person encounters a situation, antecedents,(stimulus events that precede a behavior or thought, or feeling and make it more or less likely to occur), encourage or discourage particular behaviors (or cognitions or emotions, which at the cellular level are really just tiny behaviors) to occur, which are then followed by positive or negative consequences, which determine whether we'll do the same or similar things in that or similar situations in the future. Up until recently, scientists thought there were many different types of learning -- such as classical conditioning, operant or instrumental conditioning, verbal learning, insightful learning, incidental learning, etc., etc. -- that followed different natural principles, but it now seems clear that those apparently different types are all parts of the same associative learning paradigm, which is the ABC model we've just described. And that's the same learning paradigm that all non-humans follow, too. It is the general natural law of learning.
In everyday language, humans spend their lives encountering various antecedent situations, remembering what they did in that or similar situations before (whether we consciously know we remember them, or not), then manifesting the behaviors that produced the most consistently positive consequences in the past, and finally noting which antecedents led to which behaviors with which consequences, for use when similar antecedent situations are encountered in the future. That's how most normal and intelligent behaviors (and thoughts and emotions) develop. And that's what most of the memory areas of our brains are used for: remembering our past learning experiences and applying those "experiential lessons learned" to future situations. (Remember too, that when we refer to learning or conditioning behaviors, we're including cognitions and emotions too, because thoughts and feelings are learned in exactly the same way!)
It can't be emphasized too much that all human cognitions, emotions, and behaviors are learned by the A -> B -> Cs, from the prenatal environment to the deathbed, by every single intact person on the planet, from time immemorium. Hitler and Socrates and George W. Bush and the Pope and Madonna and you and I and everybody else have behaved and thought and felt as we have primarily because we learned to act (think, feel) that way due to the pre-programmed psychological repertoire we inherited at conception, and the learned antecedents and consequences which shaped those behaviors throughout life+ something more called faith/ideology or propaganda effects.
People who behave very consistently throughout their lives literally can't think of any other way to behave to get the positive consequences they need; and people who make major -- and even minor -- changes in their behavior patterns do so because they can think of better ways to get the positive consequences they want, or even better consequences. One of the main functions of the brain, therefore, is to meticulously register, associate, and recall the millions of instances of A -> B -> C sequences throughout our lives and to efficiently generalize that knowledge to similar situations in the future.
We'll call this important brain function -- which, again, is absolutely critical to normal adaptation, the development of intelligence, problem-solving, critical thinking, and many other "higher" human and humanistic skills -- the human "conditioning computer." NOTE also that throughout this discussion, we'll use a lot of "shorthand notations" for the lengthy terms routinely used in learning. This will not only shorten the discussion and expand your vocabulary.
These simple initial examples are but tiny droplets in the mighty river of influences that learning has on human life. As soon as the fetus in the womb develops enough of a nervous system to sense and associate stimuli and responses (yes, conditioning can even occur in utero!), associative learning begins to powerfully complement our genes in determining the course of our development. Our basic pre-programmed instincts and reflexes are re-programmed by learning to serve more adaptive purposes, and our genetically pre-programmed predispositions are programmed and re-programmed into specific adaptive thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in life. And as we grow, and encounter new challenges and changed environments, our old habits are re-programmed into newer, more adaptive psychological repertoires so we can continue developing successfully. For most of us, learning is the most powerful determinant of "who we grow up to be," and it is the most powerful tool to change "who we are" if that's not adaptive enough. We can -- and routinely do -- learn to "grow old gracefully," and we're capable of learning right up until the moment of brain death. Such is the influence of learning.
To summarize what we've learned thus far, for the genetically intact individual with a normal range of environmental experiences, one's genes provide a huge potential psychological repertoire (via a large number of genetic predispositions and a relatively few instincts), from which one's learning experiences selects the particular thoughts, feelings, and behaviors which are most adaptive for one's environment(s) as we develop. This prototypical "normal" developmental pattern thus produces successful children, adolescents, and adults, whether in any particular instance we're talking about a really good head-hunter in the Amazon jungle, or a competent car designer in Japan, or a successful soccer player in the U. K., or a happy and effective humanist in any line of work in any nation in the world!
But what happens if and when an individual's genes aren't "intact," or one starts out with an intact nervous system but it is subsequently damaged by injury or disease, or one's nervous system remains normal but there is not a normal range of learning experiences or the enviornment to benefit development? This is the domain of the third natural determinant of human psychology -- trauma -- which we'll address next.
 


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[vinnomot] Re: Freedom of Speech vis-a-vis Gradual Fundamentalization of our Mother

Shadhin U Ahmed, I did not live in a prayer house my entire life, so surely I know how it whiffs. You can ask your elderly Moeen U Ahmed, see if he is willing to share his experience with you.

 

I got to admit, you have an inquisitive mind, nothing wrong but good. Someday you will know about the smell of a prostitute too if you really don't know about it yet.

 

Thanks.

Shamim Chowdhury

==========================================================
--- In vinnomot@yahoogroups.com, Shadhin Ahmed <ashek1@...> wrote:
>
> Shamim Bhai,
>
> I am just wondering how do you know a prostitute wear
> low quality perfume?
>
> I am just curious.
>
> --- Shamim Chowdhury veirsmill@... wrote:
>
> > Dear Ms. Mahjabeen,
> >
> > For the sake of this story, let us consider
> > Voldemart as religious traders such as Jamaati and
> > Hogwarts as Bangladesh. What is missing? Oh surely
> > it’s our great politicians (I am a mini me of
> > them), lets name all of them as Death Eaters.
> > Don’t forget about Carrow, Alecto the sister of
> > Amycus Carrow and part of the group of Death Eaters
> > that invaded Hogwarts in the Battle of the Tower,
> > lets consider them as agent of foreign master(s).
> >
> > Oh my God, it is all coming to light! We must read
> > the Harry Potter story again and again to know what
> > really going to happen to our fate.
> >
> > Do you remember what Lord Voldemort said? "How
> > many will be brave enough to return when they feel
> > [the Dark Mark on their arms turn black]? And how
> > many will be foolish enough to stay away?"
> >
> > Ms. Mahjabeen, I agree with lot of what you have
> > to say but I remind my self, what if my father had
> > done something wrong, do I carry it all along my
> > life or at some point, I try to correct the wrong
> > with a right. Surely, I will do that. I want to see
> > the annihilation of Lord Voldemort the traders of
> > religion and end to the rule of Death Eaters.
> >
> > Mujib was an ordinary man from a very ordinary
> > family but then again his life become more then a
> > life with all his flaws as a human bean. He did not
> > realized his Hogwarts (Bangladesh) is contaminated
> > with Death Eaters who wants to revive Lord Voldemort
> > in all sense. But that really does not matter,
> > history tell us damage was done on the dawn and none
> > of us the residents of Hogwarts ever tried to
> > correct it but did quite opposite and let Lord
> > Voldemort take all over Hogwarts.
> >
> > These Death Eaters are everywhere then and now but
> > please for the sake of Hogwarts do not think there
> > is no man with sense prevailing. Magical Harry,
> > Weasleys and Hagrids are still there with all their
> > friends, and all the keys are still safe in Hagrids
> > hand.
> >
> > Yes, lot of damage has been done and bunch of
> > words has been loft in the air one against another
> > and parasites are doubling and tripling. I am not
> > sure where it going to stop.
> >
> > I will write about it again, its getting late
> > almost 3:00 in the morning but before I go let me
> > tell you few things
> >
> > I think this CG has a facade with a beautiful
> > face-hiding scar everywhere with heavy makeup and
> > low quality perfume just like a prostitute.
> >
> > I consider my self as a firm believer of secular
> > politics and somewhat religious in my personal life
> > and my father was so. It is not everyone who floated
> > their self with the stream, there are so many people
> > I know who did tried to swim against the turbulent
> > water. I am a small man but tried my best to stop
> > the unjust flow especially loitering with the
> > fundamentalist. In protest, I resigned when I failed
> > to stop.
> >
> > You may not agree but I firmly believe Awami
> > League with its entire shortcoming is the last
> > outpost to stop the spread of fundamentalist
> > takeover of Bangladesh. This fortress been
> > destroyed, cracked or shattered is the mere
> > destruction of any hope left to turn back to what
> > we dreamed, dream that we found through loss of
> > millions. Anyone who wants the destructions of this
> > fortress is enemy to me and I will fight to survive.
> > I said destruction not criticism, any one who dose
> > criticize to correct are welcomed and considered as
> > friend not foe.
> >
> > Before I say sayonara to you Ms. Mahjabeen let me
> > say my final word, to me Bangabandhu Sheikh Mujib is
> > the composure of honest, loving, fatherly Dumbledore
> > of Hogwarts. One man, one life he has done a lot.
> > What he could not do, is not what he did not wanted
> > to do but perhaps he failed. Even the most
> > successful man of this planet earth has story to
> > tell about his failures.
> >
> > Sincerely
> > Shamim Chowdhury
> >
> > Note: I like your way of story telling, thanks for
> > sharing your thoughts. You may condemn me but please
> > do not condemn my ideological views.
> >
> >
> >
> > Freedom of Speech vis-a-vis Gradual
> > Fundamentalization of our Mother
> >
> > Freedom of Speech vis-a-vis Gradual
> > Fundamentalization of our Motherland
> >
> > The door bell rang for the fifth time. The
> > electronic sound chimed the same music every time it
> > came through the little white box located on the
> > wall of our entry foyer. But somewhere in the tone I
> > could sense the irritation of the person whose
> > finger depressed the little button mounted on my
> > exterior door. ?Where is everyone?? Through the
> > glass door of my study, I saw my spouse viewing the
> > TV with an intense attention. I could not see the
> > children from my vantage point, but no doubt that
> > they are also busy attending another TV set
> > somewhere inside their room. Reluctantly, I got off
> > of the chair leaving the computer screen glowing in
> > the dark, came to the Foyer, and opened the door.
> >
> > It is Chotka, my youngest brother. Being the
> > youngest among my parents four children, he grew up
> > with this doting nickname that could not be shaken
> > off from my vocabulary even though he is 34 now. My
> > brother Chotka AKA Mohammad Zaved Alam works for a
> > Multinational Management Consulting Company located
> > in the Midwest. He is currently on a week long
> > assignment at Richmond where he is negotiating a
> > contract with Virginia State Government. But that is
> > about 70 miles south of my Northern Virginia
> > suburban home.
> >
> > ?What are you doing here?? I asked.
> > ?Came to eat some ?Piaju? and ?Chola?, got some
> > leftover from the Iftar??
> > ?No?, I replied.
> > ?Oh! I am so disappointed!? He said with a smiling
> > face without a hint of disappointment in his face.
> > He knows that the Iftari in our household is
> > anything but all these deep fried starters. He knows
> > how much we (me and my spouse) despise the
> > aftereffect of the Piaju and Beguni both from health
> > and social point of view (carrying the stink of
> > fried Daal on your clothing to work next day and
> > make the colleagues avoid you like plague) .
> > ?Don?t be?, I assured Chotka, ?we have Chicken and
> > Daal. Bet you haven?t had those for some time.?
> > ?That would do for now? said Chotka ?but tell me
> > what you guys are up to and where is everyone? I
> > rang your door bells for half an hour (exaggerating
> > of course), I thought you all went to the Tarabi
> > prayers.?
> > ?Well, your Dulabhai is saying his prayers in
> > front of the TV, your niece and nephew is sharpening
> > their video gaming skills and I am checking my
> > e-mails.?
> > ?Are you becoming a workaholic? Leave your work at
> > work and give some time to the family.?
> > ?What are you talking about?? I replied. ?This is
> > not work. I am just checking my yahoo e-mails.?
> > ?O! So what is new in ?cyber bangla? now-a-days??
> > Even though Chotka is 14 years younger than me and
> > spent almost his entire adult life in the USA, he is
> > well aware of my stand on Bangladeshi politics and
> > how passionately I feel about many issues
> > surrounding our dear homeland. But, he does not keep
> > tags on Bangladeshi affairs on a day to day basis.
> > So, whenever I get a chance, I update him on the
> > current socio-political issues. As I gave him a
> > quick sermon on the latest controversy related to
> > the Cat Cartoon.
> >
> > Chotka listened intently with a grim face and
> > suddenly burst into a glee. I was surprised and
> > slightly irritated. ?Look Chotka! This is not a
> > laughing matter.? Chtoka almost choked trying to
> > control his laughter. He said, ?Yes it is.?
> > ?Why?? I was almost angry.
> > ?Because I am thinking about Steve.?
> > ?Who the hell is Steve??
> > ?My boss Steve Schroeder.?
> > ?What does your boss got to do with this??
> > ?Your cartoonist only connected Mohammed?s name
> > with a cat. I wish the Mullah?s heard what Steve
> > said to me today. They would surely have lost all
> > their appetite for Iftar.?
> > ?OK! What is the story.?
> > ?You know sis (Chotka used to call me Bubu in
> > Bangladesh, I guess he is so Americanized now, he
> > calls me ?sis? as an abbreviated American term for
> > sister) I came here to negotiate a contract with
> > Virginia State for my company.?
> > ?Yeah!?
> > ?We just got it today.?
> > ?Congratulations!?
> > ?Well, it was not easy. We had serious
> > competition?.?
> > ?Good for you.?
> > ?OK, I called my boss Steve with the good news??
> >
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Re: [vinnomot] Islam and politics in Bangladesh

Well said Shamim Bhai. Its not I am always against
you. I liked it as to what you wrote in here. Nicely
done.

--- Shamim Chowdhury <veirsmill@yahoo.com> wrote:

>
>
> Dear Alochok Ezajur ,
> Greetings. before I go into your current
> discussion let me ask you a question in refer to
> your posting on August 31st of 2007 (#8329 of 8436)
> with Alochona forum.
>
> Brother, I do not remember I ever posed as a
> neutral person, so what you discovered from my
> posting is not clear to me till today! Since I
> started writing in the net, I openly said I am a
> member of Bangladesh Awami League. You can search
> the net with my name and you will find in plentiful
> posting where I claimed my self as Awami worker, and
> I am proud of that.
>
> I am not sure whether you will agree or not but I
> found it is interesting that predominance of Awami
> supporter are not covert but overt. On the other
> hand majority of Jamaat, BNP and present army back
> government are ashamed of their identity therefore
> do not want to disclose their political
> distinctiveness! May I hope you will come forward
> and let the netters know your political affiliation
> or you may choose to act same as those characters I
> mentioned above?
>
> Anyway, let me come to your recent posting and
> present my two cents. I do agree with a hefty area
> of your thoughts. Yes indeed, it is shameless
> unquestionable defeat of morality of mainstream
> politics that triggered the rise of politics of
> religion based on falls perception not only in
> Bangladesh but in almost all countries of the world
> especially in Muslim majority country.
>
> However, that dose not proves by any means that
> the standing of religion-based politics is right. It
> remains as one of the most inhuman unworthy system
> to try that failed miserably many moons ago. With
> all its shortcoming democracy remains most
> compassionate and trustworthy political system yet
> until we find something new and obviously better.
>
> Politics based on theology and theocratic state is
> nothing new but a very old phenomenon, perhaps the
> oldest among all other school of politics. World has
> witnessed the rise and fall of theological political
> estate from east to west and north to south of our
> dear globe. Especially theocratic states based on
> Christianity and Islam become chunk of our medieval
> history.
>
> Whether it is Christian or Islamic state, all of
> theology based statehood collapsed not by outsiders
> but insiders. Who saw it as blockade for human
> development and against the very essence of why God
> created his kingdom with different skin colors,
> difference of opinion, creed, linguistic barrier,
> physical differences and so many other significant
> dissimilarity to test how we coincide and coexist
> with each other and still do justice?
>
> Theological state remains viable as long there was
> good leaders who evidently created state based on
> theology but ruled with justice of universality. But
> as time passed by morality of those leaders
> collapsed and it not only left a chilling effect on
> the society but also bankrupt the very base of
> religion it self. The very mathematics of ruling
> statehood changed. Theology for mankind replaced by
> rule of aristocracy of royals in the name of
> thology. Thus, the end of the morally of bankrupt
> theological state collapsed and usher the rise of
> state with collective leadership now what we call
> democracy.
>
> If you look at the history of our Islamic
> statehood that started in the hand of the most
> noblemen, Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) in Medina
> collapsed completely not long after his departure.
> However, there are many arguments whether we should
> call the statehood of Medina or it was a mere
> community hood in agreement.
>
> In absence of Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) Islamic
> state or community in agreement failed as able
> leaders of caliphate died or killed by insiders.
> After the disappearance of Caliphate a Rashidun.
>
> Hazrat Abū Bakr (RA) nominated Hazrat Umar (RA)
> as his successor on his deathbed, and there was
> consensus in the Muslim community to his choice. His
> successor, Hazrat Uthman, was elected by a council
> of electors (Majlis), but was soon perceived by some
> to be ruling as a "king" rather than an elected
> leader. Hazrat Uthman was killed by members of a
> disaffected group. Hazrat Alī then took control,
> and although very popular, he was not universally
> accepted as caliph by the governors of Egypt, and
> later by some of his own guard. He had two major
> rebellions and was assassinated after a tumultuous
> rule of only five years. This period is known as the
> Fitna, or the first Islamic civil war.
>
> Muāwiyya, a relative of Uthman, and governor
> (Wali) of Syria became one of Hazrat Alī's (RA)
> challengers. After Hazrat Alī's (RA) death,
> Muāwiyya managed to overcome other claimants to the
> Caliphate. Under Muāwiyya, the caliphate became a
> hereditary office for the first time. He founded the
> Umayyad dynasty. We know the sad story of Karbala
> where Prophet Muhammad’s grandsons were killed in
> the hands of Umayyad who eventually formed the
> Umayyad dynasty.
>
> From the time of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) the
> Umayyad, Abbasid, and finally Ottoman (sultans of
> Turkey) dynasties held successive caliphates.
> Caliphate ended when Gazi Mustafa Kemal Atatürk, as
> part of his reforms, constitutionally abolished the
> institution of the Caliphate in 1924.
>
> Scattered attempts to revive the Caliphate
> elsewhere in the Muslim World were made in the years
> immediately following its abandonment by Turkey, but
> none were successful.
>
> Hussein bin Ali, a former Ottoman governor of the
> Hejaz who aided the British during World War I and
> revolted against Istanbul, declared himself Caliph
> two days after Turkey relinquished the title. But
> his claim was largely ignored, and he was soon
> ousted and driven out of Arabia by the Saudis, a
> rival clan that had no interest in the Caliphate.
> The last Ottoman Sultan Mehmed VI made a similar
> attempt to re-establish himself as Caliph in the
> Hejaz after leaving Turkey, but he was also
> unsuccessful. A summit was convened at Cairo in 1926
> to discuss the revival of the Caliphate, but most
> Muslim countries did not participate and no action
> was taken to implement the summit's resolutions.
>
> However, the King of Morocco adopted the title
> Ameer al-Mumineen and Mullah Mohammed Omar, former
> head of the now-defunct Taliban regime of
> Afghanistan, claimed neither any legal standing nor
> authority over Muslims outside the borders of their
> respective countries.
>
> Brother Ezajur, the only reason why I explained
> (Lot of these are not mine but from facts copied
> from history) is only to explain one and one reason.
>
> Degradation of morality not only happened in
> democratic politics today but also long before that
> we witnessed the similar or perhaps more cynical and
> dangerously sleeping down in politics based in
> religion.
>
> Now let me come to my point, with above said it is
> clear that there is no consensus among Muslim since
> the end of Caliphate of Rashidun to reestablish the
> statehood in its true essence. What we see in the
> name of Islamic statehood is nothing but mockery of
> Islam and rather rule of dynasty instead of rule of
> collectiveness. A mad man like Mullah Mohammad Omar
> of Afghanistan can claimed to establish some sort of
> Caliphate. On the other hand, there is country like
> Bangladesh who created a façade of Islamic
> Republic, which is based on nothing but so-called
> utopian Islamic state. It character is such that
> drunk womanizer a dishonest man like Gen. Ershad has
> to give the legitimacy by his military sermon to
> declare Bangladesh a Islamic Republic.
>
> Jamaat-E-Islami and most of Islamic political
> entity in Bangladesh (elsewhere too) wants to
> establish the state based on Islamic theology such
> as Caliphate is nothing but another travesty and a
> slap over our religion. Jamaat or no other Islamic
> leader in Bangladesh or else where has the moral
> authority to form such government.
>
> Just think who are the people who lead this
> so-called Islamic party in Bangladesh, Golam Azam,
> Matiur Rahman Nizami self-proclaimed war criminals,
> master minder of thousands of Bengali during our
> liberation war are in the forefront of
> Jamaat-E-Islami of Bangladesh. Mr. Ezaj, please
> think and then tell me what morality you see on
> these traders of religion, murderers and thugs
>
> It is sad that people with conscious mind are not
> uniting to start a movement not just to wipeout
> these religious traders for the sake of Bangladesh
> but for the sake of Islam as well. Just few days ago
> so called Islamic party in Bangladesh name Hizbut
> Tahrir which even does not believe in Bangladesh
> constitution (read their own statement from their
> website
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