[mukto-mona] Bengali culture and Islam

Culture is a vast thing. 'Indecency' is subjective. If culture means how a group leads its life in general--what the group members eat and how they eat, what they wear, what games they play, what music they listen to, how they deal with their fellow group members, and so on, then it must be mostly local. A religion has almost nothing to do about it. Hindu culture in Kerala is not exactly same as Hindu culture in Bengal. It is more appropriate to say culture in Kerala or culture in Bengal without tying it to a particular religion. There are subcultures within each culture. But we are talking about our national culture in general which must be all inclusive. Culture evolves over time in an interactive way. What I want to say I'd that a religion must not be too restrictive; it must not spoon feed what to wear and what not to  eat or drink. It should rather focus on the values that are universal.

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On Apr 15, 2012, at 9:08 AM, Jiten Roy <jnrsr53@yahoo.com> wrote:

 

Hannan Saheb, Thank you for saying that the so called "Muslim-Culture" has Arabian cultural influence. You are an open minded religious person, who I can talk to for hours. May I respectfully present a few more points in this regard? You said: "Muslim culture vary from place to place partly as Islam allows acceptance of Urf or local custom if it is not against Tauhid and does not contain Shirk and Fahisha ( indecency)."   When you say "…if it is not against Tauhid and does not contain Shirk and Fahisha ( indecency)" you are measuring against STANDARDs that came from a different region (Arabia), and you are trying to comply with it. You are also assuming that this is the bottom line. Before you do so please think about the following scenario – let's assume Prophet and writers of those Islamic religious books were from Bangladesh; what kind of cultural practices they would have prescribed for the Muslim Ummah? Definitely, the religion would have been the same, but the cultural practices for Muslims would have been the local Bengali customary practices. As you see – religious culture reflects local culture, and culture is not absolute, but – the religion is.   Therefore, we should not mix up religion with culture. Logically, I would think - even if local practices do not comply with "Tauhid" it should be fine with Islam.  And the standard for Shirk and Fahisha ( indecency) has universal norms; I agree with you on those points.   Regards,   Jiten Roy --- On Sat, 4/14/12, S A Hannan <sahannan@sonarbangladesh.com> wrote: From: S A Hannan <sahannan@sonarbangladesh.com> Subject: RE: [mukto-mona] RE: [KHABOR] FW: Bangla New Year Day--editorial Asia Post To: mukto-mona@yahoogroups.com Date: Saturday, April 14, 2012, 8:10 PM   Respected Jiten sahib, It is true time has changed. It is also true that Muslim culture has some Arab root, however ninety percent of it is based on teachings of the Quran and Sunnah and in that sense Muslim culture is universal for Muslims. Muslim culture vary from place to place partly as Islam allows acceptance of Urf or local custom if it is not against Tauhid and does not contain Shirk and Fahisha ( indecency).   Shah Abdul Hannan   From: mukto-mona@yahoogroups.com [mailto: mukto-mona@yahoogroups.com ] On Behalf Of Jiten Roy Sent: Sunday, April 15, 2012 1:07 AM To: mukto-mona@yahoogroups.com Subject: Re: [mukto-mona] RE: [KHABOR] FW: Bangla New Year Day--editorial Asia Post     Hannan Saheb,   Our childhoods were in a different era. Now it is internet era. We have many things now that we did not have then; also we do many things that we did not do then. We have cell phones now; boys and girls can talk as long as they want, which we could not do. These are modern amenities, and they are here to stay. You should not stay in your childhood forever. You cannot stop progress in the society because it was not there before.   Also, what you call your religious culture is not your Bengali Muslim culture; it's the Arabian Culture. You are trying to emulate that culture as your religious culture. Every society has distinct culture. Religion is separate from culture. Our Bengali culture is richer than Arabian Culture. Don't try to shun your culture to embrace some foreign culture. Having said that, I should admit - we cannot eliminate the influence of other cultures totally in this day and age. Therefore let's admit that truth and move on. Our kids are having fun with the New Year Celebration; you should be happy too and enjoy the festivity with them. Yet, you are suffering inside. God likes us more when we have fun. God is happy when we are happy.   Jiten Roy --- On Sat, 4/14/12, S A Hannan <sahannan@sonarbangladesh.com> wrote: From: S A Hannan <sahannan@sonarbangladesh.com> Subject: [mukto-mona] RE: [KHABOR] FW: Bangla New Year Day--editorial Asia Post To: khabor@yahoogroups.com , mezbahjowher@yahoo.com Cc: mukto-mona@yahoogroups.com , "'sahannan'" <sahannan@yahoogroups.com> Date: Saturday, April 14, 2012, 7:32 AM   Jowher  sahib,   I have not said that women should stay in home only. You know Islam permits women to go even in battlefields .I have found out that most women I have talked do not like body exposures before men folk ( dress is  becoming too revealing with Urna—breast and head cover-- in hand or neck or shoulder, sometimes transparent dress ) .Most  women  I oppose this. I am 73.In my childhood in various places (I moved with my father who was in service) I did not see any observance in Ist Baishakh, not even any rich food in home. Literature show that some melas used to be held in some places where some toys etc used to be sold.   What is happening now is corporate capitalists business promotion (buying new dress, new ornaments, bangles etc) and invasion of western and Indian nude culture of exploiting women's body. The bad boys use this day to harass girls and touch their bodies. This is the truth. Some secular elements are trying to make this an alternative to Eid in the name of so-called non-communalism which in effect means promotion of idolatry of various kinds instead of Tauhidi culture .   Shah Abdul Hannan     From: khabor@yahoogroups.com [mailto: khabor@yahoogroups.com ] On Behalf Of Mohammad Rahman Sent: Saturday, April 14, 2012 3:57 PM To: khabor@yahoogroups com; mezbahjowher@yahoo.com Subject: Re: [KHABOR] FW: Bangla New Year Day--editorial Asia Post     I think Mr Hannan didn't advocate to kill anyone and it is against the Islamic teachings and observing Pahelabaisak is debatable. There is need of scholarly discussion to observe it in an Islamic way. We shouldn't throw the blame of arrow to someone for nothing. JAK. Sent from Yahoo! Mail on Android   From: