As a Bangladeshi, I would like to see India as a friend rather than an enemy. There are various reasons for it. No one can live alone. However, whoever is more solvent can afford to live a longer life in solitude. When we compare, India and Bangladesh, it appears that Bangladesh definitely needs India to be a good neighbor. India is more wealthy, more powerful, and has more stakes in the international affairs than Bangladesh. That does not necessarily means that Bangladesh has to remain a slave or suordinate of India. Bangladesh is a fully independent country. Every country has internal problems. India has too. Perhaps India has more internal problems than bangladesh. But that is not issue we want to focus on. What I want to say that the respect grows from the day to day behavor between two countries like two individuals. Interruption in any affairs from one country to the other make the relationship between them worse. So, the authors in the following e-mails have legitimate reasons for arguing with each other. By my oipnion, no one has right to blame the others falsely.
For whatever reason India helped Bangladesh to be independent, is always greeted by most of the Bangladeshis. Some people will always blame the others for no true reasons. We may ignore them. But unfortunately, after the independence, India took 90,000 surrendered Pak army with them. Never gave back to Bangladesh or did not do any trials probably only to save money or to obtain some sympathy of Pakistan. But it was extremely unfair to let the war criminals to go simply free. This later haunted India. Pakistan found easy recruits to form Talaban Army that agitated the entire world including India. Later India tried to strictly control Bangladesh through the Sheikh Mujib's Government. That strictness made the life of most people of Bangladesh measurable.
It is true that India did not occupy Bangladesh in 1971 the way China occupied Tibet. But India wanted to keep her extreme influence on Bangladesh that backfired and caused the death of the National Father. It is india who made Sheikh Mujib to form Rakkhi Bahini, Lal Bahini, and Jubo League. Like any other most brutal organizations, these militias of Sheikh Mujib killed thousands of people in the country, political and non-political both. It is India and Russia, who made Sheikh Mujib bound, to start Bakshal, a one party communist style Government. This created huge big rebellion among the people like the one that happened during the time of freedom fight but in support. So, India is no angel. India must had the reasons for doing all those but these actions took away the respect of Bangladeshi people for India that grew during the liberation period.
Then India never solved the Farakkha problem. India unilaterally drew excessive international water, stealing from Bangladesh, year after year that caused the western part of Bangladesh, almost to be a desert. Is it India's friendliness to Bangladesh? India roused the Mogh-Chakmas of Chittagong Hill Tract to rebel against Bangladesh Government. Its an open truth, everybody knows it. Is it the right relationship that India should maintain with Bangladesh? Can a friend do that?
Any Bangla speaking muslim if found in the hand of LEOs in any part of India, arrested and pushed through the border in to Bangladesh, even if for generations, they were not living in Bangladesh. Why India pushes foreign nationals to Bangladesh? Why Bangla speaking muslims are the enemies of India? They have a lot of them like this as their own citizens. Why India want to get rid off them? What does it mean? I guess it means harassing Bangladesh is probably deeply rooted into the minds of Indian Government. If that is true, how Bangladeshis will respect India? Respect is mutual. If one takes any advantage, the other gets offended. India should think about it. It is not only Bangladesh needs India, India probably needs Bangladesh too. See the countries in Europe and America. No bigger countries bother their smaller neighbors, rather try to help by all means. If India can do so, I can guarantee, India will get the entire respect of the Bangladeshis.
Also, Bangladeshis must have to avoid all kinds of minor and smaller scale irritations. For bigger issues, let's have courage to talk to Indian Government directly, and try hard to get to the bottom of the issues, and try hard for their amicable resolutions. If failed, try or take the issues to the international bodies.
But one thing must not be done is the rivalry. Never ever rivalry brings any fruits. The severely broken relationship between India and Pakistan is haunting both these countries drastically, specifically Pakistan. Urging to both Bangladeshis and Indians not to fall into the same puddle. We need to be thoughtful, cool, smart, tactful, energetic, hardworking, respectful, and fair. If we can bestow ourselves with these qualities, and if India wants a long time real friend on her side, Bangladesh will always be there, for the good of both. Until then we have to manage the situations very carefully such that nothing goes beyond the reach. Stability of Bangladesh depends a lot on the bilateral relationship between Bangladesh and India.
However, India must know, that Bangladesh will never, surrender to India, on any undue approach. So, India! Please try to be our friend, not master.
If India ever plans to be the master, it will never fulfill.
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From: shmm777@yahoo.com
Date: Thu, 11 Sep 2008 00:44:28 -0700
Subject: [ALOCHONA] Re: [dhakamails] India helped in our liberation war for India's interest
stop arguing and ask india to stop depriving & dictating bangladesh. you wrote, "You must realise that there is nothing much for us to exploit or loot from you."-----if you are an indian be learned about river water sharing, border killing, imposed trade deficiency, ill intended transit etc. it is a different type of looting (unlike the british did centuries ago) and if you have a TV, watch mr pinak speak to our media ignoring diplomatic norms and code of conduct. --- On Tue, 9/9/08, Visharad Sharma <visharadsharmatg@ From: Visharad Sharma <visharadsharmatg@ |
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