All the so-called "obligations of women" are quoted from Ahadith that are questionable because none is supported or matched in meaning or sense by a verse from the Qur'an. On the contrary, I can think of Qur'anic verses that explicitly or implicitly ask men to be kind and courteous to their wives. One is 4:34. This may surprise many, but it is a verse that discourages marital rape explicitly and to honor the wishes of women in these conjugal matters. In other words, the Qur'an gives women the priority in the final decision in matters of marital union. The message of these Ahadith is therefore AGAINST the spirit of the Holy Qur'an. We must resist this propagation of misogyny that is ultra vires to Allah's Message:
In the name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful
Ayahs of the Day:
Say: 'If Allah wanted otherwise, I would have not recited this (Qur'an) to you, nor would have made you aware of it. Indeed, a whole lifetime I lived among you before its revelation. Why you do not use your common-sense?' Who can be more unjust than the one who himself forges a lie, then ascribes it to Allah or falsifies His real Revelations? Indeed, such criminals can never prosper." {Al Qur'an: Surah Yunus 10:13-17}
[May I request Mohd. Irtaza to find those verses in the Qur'an that remind menfolks to honor the wishes of their wives and treat them with respect? --Farida Majid]
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