Dear Gita Dash,
apnar "Tokhon o akhon" lekha ta mukto monae porlam. 13th part e eshe apni thiki bolechen j 21st century teo ei society te narir obosthar khub akta change hoi nai.
apnar kache amar akta prosno ache.Apnara je narir odhikar er kotha bolen seta ki western society te nai? apnara bole ashchen j nari boishommer shikar , narir proti society drishtivongi narrow, nari nirjatito, narir shadhinota nai etc. Egula ki south asian country & muslim country gulotei beshi dakha jai na? egula ki western country gulote dakha jai? amar prosno hocche western countryr narira ki ultimate freedom orjon korar dike egiye jacchen na?
apnader oneke bolen j western society te naki nari ponno. kintu kivabe? In reality, western society tei to narib shob kichu korche : babsha korche, chakri korche, driving korche, khaladhula korche, defence force e jog dicche, nijer iccha moto life lead korche, nijer icchamoto life partner choose korche, nijer protiva bikash korche. Amader deshe kono maye show biz e gele society te nana rokom kotha uthe. Media te ( cinema, drama, song, dance etc) narir kaj kora shomporke akon o amader society te negetive dharona ase. erokom onek hoise j kono maye media te kaj korte chae kintu tar family, relatives er apotti, bad comments er jonno kaj korte pare nai. western societyte ki erokom hoi? sekhane ki nari media te kaj korar jonno kono badhar shommukhin hoi family,relatives ,societyr kach theke?
Media te kaj korar baparta example hishebe dilam. erokom aro ojosro example deya jabe jekhane dakha jabe amader shomaje hajaro badha kintu western society te kono badha nai. jamon maye der rat e baire ber howa. Amader society te maye ra rat e aka aka baire ber hoi na bollei chole and holeo family,relatives,society comments korte uthe pore lege jai. western society te ki erokom hoi? sekhane ki akta maye obolilae e rat e aka aka baire ber hocche na? tahole ki proma hoi na western society narir jonno adorsho?
europe amerciar big big city te 50% vehicle er driver e female hobe apni jodi khojen. Dhaka shohore to lak lak gari. dhaka te ki 50% driver female khuje paben? paben na jani. tahole akon ki proman hoi na j narir proti western societyr views equal?
shobchaye boro kotha holoe western mayer life e akta shadhinota ase. sha tar icchamot life lead korte parche . Bangladeshe akta maye ki ta parche? parhcen a. tahole kano shikar koren na j western society te narir shadhinota ase? kano bar bar "western society narike ponno mone kore" bole underestimale koren?
western society liberal. liberalism er moddhei narir mukti. bangladeshi society conservative. conservative society te ki narir mukti shomvob? jodi shomvob na hoi tahole kano kono bangladeshi maye western culture follow kora suru korle take apnara " opo shongskriti" bole bidrup koren? Kano borong take apnara western culture follow korakei encourage koren na?
amader shamne 3 ta culture. western culture, bangali culture , islamic culture.
islamic culture e narir shadhinotar " sho" o nai. Nari shompurno oboruddho ei culture e.
bangali culture islamic culture theke kichuta liberal. BUT churanto bibechonae etao narir shadhinota birodhi culture. seta to apni jenen e.
ami mone kori western culture ei narir mukti. because western culture liberal. There is no conservatism. There is no one to restrict women's life style in western culture.
Asha kori apni amr email er answer diben. I will be waiting for your reply....
Talat