Friends
Marraige is universal but the history of marraige has undergone certain reforms to make it bindings on both the paries to adehere to it's oath. During the reign of the kings and the Emperors there existed certain rules as for the marraige of the Nobles.
The kings/queens could not marry the commoner or from any other faith other than h/her own.
In the mordern era the governments also put some restrictions on marraige of the officials who holds position wherein dealing the national secrets.This restriction does in no way falls under the purview of violation of HR or obsacles to individuals personal freedom. It is welknown that while taking up such jobs the incumbents are well aware of the do's and dont's of the specialized service. So upon entry s/he is not entitled to any consideration of sentimental isues of love etc. here the national interest must be adhered to.
I am wondering that as the days are passing by Bangladesh is on the making of hundreds of examples of exemption overriding the rules paving the way of making fun out of the gravity of law. This wil surely have long lasting effect on the image of Bangladesh. It has`become a routine matter to make exception on he basis of connection and influence
To my opinion the recent "Premer Upakhkhan"( ISMAT JAHAN) of a lady Diplomat of our country should not have been considered on any pretext violating the long practiced rule of business of Foreign Service Cadre. Such indulgence has`surely undermined the sanctity of the country's existing rule resulting in future violations.
The concerned Diplmat should been asked to vacate the job and chose her own personal peace.
Finally I would like to quote from the writing of renowned columnist Minar Rashid about restriction as imposed by the US`governments on it's employees of diffeent cadres of sensetive nature. Quote :
"All U.S. citizen Foreign Service employees from State, AID, Commerce, Agriculture, IBB, and all other Department of State employees or contractors with sensitive duties who intend to marry a foreign national employee must inform the employing agency within 120 days prior to the expected date of marriage. If an employee has not heard back from DS after 120 days, AFSA suggest the employee contact DS to find out the status of the matter. Do not assume that everything is alright if DS hasn't provided a response within 120 days. Even if an employee has complied with the reporting requirements, there may be concerns with the employee's intended spouse or the spouse's family that could affect the employee's security clearance. Thus, it is better to err on the side of caution and check back with DS before proceeding with the marriage. Special Compartmented Information Access." Unquote
Faruque Alamgir
Kajimel Raisuddin <kraisuddin@hotmail.com> wrote:
Marriage shall be absolyutely a personal matter. Government should only provide the license, keep records, and legalise all benefits of married life. Government should never build a wall between two souls who want to be in union and live together for life, no matter where they choose their partner from, provided they go through some obsrevable social customs to get the recognition of the marriage in the society where they live. State shall not hinder anything in this matter. Worldwide many religions and many countires, who do not value human life, tried to control marriage, building enormous obstacles between two dedicted lives wanting to be in union, for living their lives together, sharing everything in common, and wiling to bring new lives to the erth, nurture and grow them up. The restrictions of marriage imposed by the religionist, imperialist, communist, and similar strictly controlled & rouge states and the societies of similar types, used to be even welcomed, by some sectors of some societies, who possess the ultra-traditions of societal controls. Both these states and societies would definitely utilize all their means to achieve their goals, if they had some kind of power in their hands. These evil forces must go away and make human lives easier to live on the earth.
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Date: Mon, 26 May 2008 03:10:42 -0700
Subject: [vinnomot] Premer fand pata vubone foreign service very interesting article by Mr miner Rashid
Dear all,an interesting article published in todays nayadiganta. In contains faqct on arab leader n generals affairs and marriage with isrealy ladies and other ....pls read and post your comments
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