http://www.womenone.org/issues_28012008.html
Jordan still wrestles with "honour" crimes
JERASH, Jordan - Strangled by her brother, the 17-year-old girl died
in a squalid Palestinian refugee camp that clings to a hillside near
the Jordanian town of Jerash.
The woman, who had been married for eight months, was the second
killed in Jordan this month in a so-called "honour" crime — the
murder of a woman accused of shaming her family.
Every year thousands of women are killed for notions of family honour
worldwide, mainly in the Middle East, North Africa and South Asia,
but also in Muslim communities in the West.
Jordan's penal code still offers leniency to a man who commits such a
crime in a "fit of rage". High-profile campaigns to change the law,
which had royal family support, have failed to sway tribal-dominated
parliaments.
But the debate has dragged the issue into the open and, unusually in
the Arab world, Jordan has begun tackling other once-taboo areas such
as domestic violence and child abuse.
"Talking about it is a first step to finding a solution," said Eva
Abu Halaweh, a 34-year-old human rights lawyer and director of Mizan,
a private group working with women at risk.
But in the impoverished backstreets of the Jerash refugee camp,
relatives of the murdered girl — no names in the case have been made
public — greet strangers with a wall of silence.
"What's already happened is enough," a woman snapped before shooing
children inside and closing the door of the family's cinderblock home
in an alley with an open drain running down it.
The victim's husband, a young man in a baseball cap, stood chatting
with friends on a corner, but bolted into his house rather than talk
about his wife's death.
A Jordanian prosecutor has charged a 20-year-old man with
premeditated murder. Local newspapers said he had stuffed a scarf in
his sister's mouth, choked her with an electric cable and smoked a
pack of cigarettes before turning himself in.
Some versions of events say he had been angered by his sister's
absences from home.
"If she was guilty, then she deserved it," said a college student in
the refugee camp, who gave his name as Mohammed.
Society under stress
Women can easily fall under male suspicion in Jordan's conservative
society, where tribal and Islamic traditions coexist uneasily with
the inroads of modernity and consumerism.
"Honour" crimes are nothing new — authorities in Jordan prosecuted 18
cases in 2006 and a similar number in 2007, although some rights
activists say the real figures are higher.
The practice is commonest in tribal Muslim societies, even though
many Islamic scholars say the Holy Quran does not sanction it and
warn Muslims against taking the law into their own hands.
"There are very few real honour killings," Abu Halaweh said at
Mizan's bustling Amman office. "Many murders are for other reasons
like disputes over inheritance. Of course the killers and their
lawyers will always look for ways to avoid penalties."
Perpetrators of "honour" crimes may escape with six months to two
years in jail. Few suffer social stigma.
Attitudes are slowly changing, rights campaigners say. Judges are
less ready to accept the "fit of fury" defence, and efforts to deal
with broader domestic violence are under way.
A year ago, the Ministry of Social Development set up Dar Al Wifaq
(house of reconciliation), which has helped 290 women and girls
referred by police because they had run away from home or had been
battered, sexually abused or neglected.
Abu Halaweh's group helps run shelters for vulnerable women who would
otherwise be put in police protective custody — some have spent years
in enforced refuge from their families.
"They need protection, then reintegration," Abu Halaweh said,
stressing the need to work with the families of victims.
She cited two women, who both survived after being shot by relatives,
who had returned home after mediation and psychological support for
both parties. "One was pregnant after being raped, but now the family
has accepted her," she said.
Child abuse
Jordan has recognised that children as well as women can suffer
physical, sexual or emotional abuse within the family.
"We were the first Arab country to admit there is abuse and to say we
should deal with it," said Nancy Naghour, manager of Dar Al Aman, a
government-funded centre that has provided temporary shelter and
therapy for abused children since 2000.
Dar Al Aman (House of Safety) also counsels the families, aiming to
ensure the children can eventually return home safely.
In one room at the centre, a comfortable apartment block on the edge
of Amman that can house 32 children, youngsters drawing at a table
respond cheerily when greeted. In another, a newly arrived boy of 11
with tormented eyes still seems ill at ease.
A bill to protect children and women from violence at home has passed
parliament's lower house and awaits senate approval.
It sets up conciliation committees to give women a chance to halt
abuse without pressing charges or seeking a divorce.
"Women hesitate to complain about their husbands, fathers or
brothers. They don't want them to be sent to prison or fined," Abu
Halaweh said. "At the same time, there is a new generation of women
and many say they won't accept violence."
Jordan has made a start on tackling issues that many Arab countries
barely acknowledge, but women's rights advocates say the persistence
of "honour" crimes shows it still has far to go.
"We've had it in the public domain quite some time, but there are no
changes," said Amal Sabbagh, a lecturer at Jordan University's Centre
for Women's Studies. "People are happy with the status quo. We go
through the motions of change."
Reuters
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